{"id":1974,"date":"2022-08-29T13:30:00","date_gmt":"2022-08-29T13:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.careplangcm.com\/?p=1974"},"modified":"2025-10-23T02:34:56","modified_gmt":"2025-10-23T02:34:56","slug":"listening-the-other-half-of-the-conversation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.careplangcm.com\/index.php\/2022\/08\/29\/listening-the-other-half-of-the-conversation\/","title":{"rendered":"Listening: The other half of the conversation\ufffc"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"700\" height=\"400\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.careplangcm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/KCMlisteningTinCan_AdobeStock_165842664-700x400-1.jpg\" alt=\"Listening: The other half of the conversation\" class=\"wp-image-1958 lazyload\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.careplangcm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/KCMlisteningTinCan_AdobeStock_165842664-700x400-1.jpg 700w, https:\/\/www.careplangcm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/KCMlisteningTinCan_AdobeStock_165842664-700x400-1-300x171.jpg 300w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 700px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 700\/400;\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Good communication requires both speaking and listening. Oddly enough, if you make a specific effort to listen, it can open doors. Once &#8220;heard,&#8221; the other person may be more willing to hear <em>your<\/em> point of view.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Deep listening is more difficult than it sounds. It&#8217;s not passive. It requires concentration. It also takes humility and empathy. Here are some tips:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Consider the setting<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Schedule your talk at an unhurried time.<\/li><li>Turn off the TV, music, and cell phone.<\/li><li>Make sure the seating and room temperature are comfortable.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Observe yourself. Are you<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>distracted by physical needs or strong emotions?<\/strong> If you are hungry, upset, or tired, you won&#8217;t be able to concentrate on what the other person is saying. Consider talking after a meal or in the morning when you&#8217;ve had a chance to rest.<\/li><li><strong>bored?<\/strong> If you &#8220;already know what is going to be said,&#8221; it&#8217;s probably best to push your internal reset button. Be open to the possibility that things might not be completely as you expect them to be.<\/li><li><strong>unable to concentrate?<\/strong> If you find your mind wandering, try mentally repeating their words. It will help you focus and fully take in what the speaker means.<\/li><li><strong>preparing your replies?<\/strong> If you find you are concentrating on your response, try listening attentively and then waiting one full second after the speaker finishes before you begin talking. 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It happens in many families. Old baggage and current stresses make for difficult communications. Let us help. Give us a call at 440.476.9534.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Good communication requires both speaking and listening. Oddly enough, if you make a specific effort to listen, it can open doors. Once &#8220;heard,&#8221; the other person may be more willing to hear your point of view. Deep listening is more difficult than it sounds. It&#8217;s not passive. It requires concentration. 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